Kata Mutiara: TheLoveStories

#realitycheck If you have choices, choose the best. If you have no choice, do the best.

Remember, when you fall for someone, you are falling into a very very DEEP hole. And remember: it's going to take forever to get out.

Don't spend forever trying to figure things out, because many things aren't meant to have answers. Let it be!!!

#realtalk If people are truly, deeply, madly, completely in love with each other... they will find a way.

Girls, don't expect your guy to be Bruno Mars, cause you're just gonna get upset. (sad but true)

If a relationship becomes too painful, let it go & save yourself, you will be able to find new love but never another you!

#lifesrule Don't look down on people. Don't look up to people. Just keep looking ahead and you'll be alright.

#realitycheck Things don't usually come easy. But, when they do, remember, they can leave easily too.

To fall in love is easy. To fall deeper is way easier. What makes it hard is to have the brave to say.

In the end you'll see who's fake, who's true and who would risk it all for you.

It's okay to make mistakes, but it's not okay to make the same mistake over and over again. If u do, then you learn nothing!

Always speak how you feel. Never apologize for what you feel, if you do it's like saying 'sorry for being real'.

Find someone that falls in love w/ ur flaws, helps u throughout ur problems, supports u in your hardest moments & proud w/ ur achievements.

If you truly love someone, then the only thing you want for them is to be happy.... even if its not with you. Just let them happy.

Thanks to all those who lie to you. They only make you see the truth about what kind of person they really are. MOVE ON.

Love is blind, but it's also blinding. You love him/her so much that u can't see what h/she really is & who h/she's changing u into.

#realtalk Being forgiving doesn't make you weak; it proves how STRONG you are.

If you live in the past, you have no future. Forget what you did yesterday, and achieve your goal for today.

Ladies: CUTE guys make u crazy, HOT guys make u drool, COOL guys make u daydream. But FUNNY guys make u fall in love without ever knowing it.

Nothing's going to be easy. This life is filled with twists, ups & downs. Just be happy with what u have, live it with no regrets!

Love is measured during the BAD moments. If u're able to overcome that tough time in a relationship, its because the love was worth it.

Time changes people. But we never change the person we truly are inside. You carry the young innocent person inside u no matter what.

Appreciate what u have, enjoy your life. Because the saying, "life flashes before your eyes" isn't just a saying. It's the truth.

#realitycheck As we grow up, it becomes to difficult to believe. Its not that we dont want to, but too much has happened that we just cant.

Nobody in life gets exactly what they thought they're going to get, but if u work really hard & you're kind, AMAZING things will happen.

The second you're willing to make yourself miserable to make someone else happy. That's love right there.

Lesson learned: don’t place your happiness in someone else’s hands, because once they’re gone, so is your happiness.

If you're in love with 2 people, pick the second one. If you really loved the 1st, you wouldn't have fallen for the 2nd.

The people who know the least about you, ironically they always have the MOST to say.

An "EX" is called an "EX" because it's an EXample of who you shouldn't go for again in the future.

Don't ever say u aren't good enough, because if h/she can't see how amazing u are, then h/she's the one who's not good enough

No one ever gets tired of loving. But everyone gets tired of waiting, assuming, hearing lies, & hurting.

#realtalk If you don't appreciate people, don't be surprised when people suddenly don't appreciate you.

Yesterday will never come again, but you have today. There's no time like the present. Be thankful for what you have.

Life only comes once. Make sure you're spending it with the right person and living it the right way.

#lifestip Before you can satisfy others, you must first satisfy yourself. It always begins with YOURSELF.

Everyone is going to hurt u, but it’s up to you to decide what is important; the pain or the person.

#Ladies, u deserve better but you'll never receive it until you've given your love to someone who deserves it. 

#lifestip Don't spend your life with someone you can live with. Spend it with the one you can't live without.

Appreciate what you have, enjoy what you have, because be careful, it could be gone in the blink of an eye.

A friend is God's way of showing you He doesn't want you to walk alone.

If u aren't happy being single, u'll never be happy in a relationship. Get ur own life first, then share it with someone.

Ladies: Showing off what you got only attract those who want what you got, NOT you.

Crying doesn't change the situation. Running away doesn't change the facts. Be brave, face everything, face yourself.

The person who's is with you through your worst is the person who loves you at your best.

When u meet someone who makes u laugh for hours about the stupidest things, u know you've found your Best Friend.

Always believe in yourself. Be YOURSELF, because everyone else is taken.

No one can promise u they'll never hurt u, it's a lie. The real promise is if the time u spend together will be worth the pain in the end.

Life isn't hard. People with their needless complications and unnecessary lies make it that way.

I don't care if u have the "number one" spot in someone's life, if u aren't the "ONLY one" why would u want to be in it?

Before judging anyone else's relationship, keep in mind that every lover has a different kind of love.

Letting go is never easy, but holding on can be as difficult. But strength isn't measured by holding on, but by letting go.

People who say breakups with boyfriends or girlfriends are the most painful kind have never had a friend walk away.

Don't judge others. Remember: before u start pointing fingers, make sure YOUR hands are clean.

#rulesforgirls If u're pretty but with a terrible personality & no brain, u might as well throw away ur beauty in a garbage can.

#relationshiptips Don't ever forget in love its always the simple things that count the most!  

Life is investment. Every single thing you do should be for a purpose, to make something bigger than now.

Stop making simple things complicated! Stop w/ the drama! Enough of the time wasting & life wasting! Life's too short! Have fun

Find the person that is going to tell you the truth, even if it means upsetting you. That's your REAL FRIEND.

Lose your pride, lose your patience, lose your mind. But whatever you do, don't lose hope. Miracles happen every second of every day.

"Impossible" is just a fancy way of saying "no on else has figured out a way to do this yet."

#Rulesforgirls If you want men to respect you, show them what you worth. Don't act cheap!

Beauty is NOT how you look, but how you make people feel.

Difference between mind & heart: Your mind tells u what smart to do. Your heart tells u what you're gonna do anyway.

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness.

Don't judge others simply by your perceptions and judgment based on their appearance.

Always remember that when everything & everyone looks like they're turning against u... someone out there is always with u.

If anyone ever tells u something like: "You don't really love them" etc. Screw them. They don't deserve love, u know who YOU love.

Don't let anyone tell YOU who YOU should love and who YOU should not. Only YOU should decide what's best for YOU.

Dealing with backstabbers, remember ONE thing: They're only powerful when you got your back turned.

If you like her, if she makes you happy, and if you feel like you know her - then don't let her go.

Ladies, #FACT 87% guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.